I make my husband crazy

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I make my husband crazy with this stuff I can see it in his eyes. When the insecurities dig in I have never been able to make them shut up. I don’t know why they’re so strong, and rationally I … Continue reading

What is spanking?

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For many spankos ‘spanking’ has been a focus of our fantasies. I have noticed that male and female spankos seem to relate histories that sound almost like a blueprint. No matter what the ‘culture’ of discipline in a spankos’ home … Continue reading

Normal and healthy spanking? Is spanking normal?

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Well ya know….. I started this ramble a while back… when I was lamenting the yucky words that describe my contented reality… sexual fetish, submissive, masochist, pain slut…. And of course the ones that describe the man I love deeply… … Continue reading

Spanking with the cane

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I alluded to some issues with thin whippy implements from our younger years, and the role of some online exploration and a freind or two in helping me to get past it. And as a result, we have embraced the … Continue reading