How To Have A Great Spanking Weekend – Part I

What a lovely day Sunday was. In my whole life I’ve never stayed any where as decadent and scrumptious as this place. We had a fire place in our bathroom can you believe it? Not to mention the one we knew about up front in our bedroom too. We really lucked out getting the reservations, and considering that this was a consolation choice for us, I’m feeling pretty fortunate.

I’ve asked Mark if we can put this place on our list of best places to come back to, and if we ever can’t get our first choice again could we please try for this one. As Hill Country B&B’s go this ranks way up there especially on the swanky and decadence scale. A few years ago on our silver wedding anniversary we stayed at another much more secluded and private spot in this same neck of the woods, but this one has it beat out when it comes to room service type amenities. I’ll go for this spot anytime we want privacy and seclusion combined with complete freedom from cooking and worries and the spot from a few years ago any time we want total seclusion and are prepared to fend for ourselves. Both are amazing.

Belgian waffles, 5 kinds of fresh berries, kiwi, cantaloupe, watermelon, papaya and honeydew!

Eggs Benedict, extra ham, sausage, maple smoked bacon and oysters! That’s what we had for Sunday breakfast. It was soooo good I asked for it again this morning, only we added the Champaign and chocolate dipped strawberries today since this was our dedicated celebration day. Hope no one gets too grossed out but, I asked for the same thing tomorrow too. LOLOL! OK so tomorrow’s is minus the Champaign since we’ll be driving home by mid day. Yup I’ll have to drive home with my jeans undone and do sit ups for a month to keep my belly from expanding to third trimester proportions. LOLOL.

The definitive how-to guide for spanking

The definitive how-to guide for spanking

Saturday was kind of on the hectic side since we lost a good chunk of the day traveling. Like I shared already though, we did make special use of the time spent driving. If I’m honest I’ll admit that I often feel ‘unqualified’ talking about good sex and sexual satisfaction in today’s world because I’ve known only one man, but I’ve decided to toss that and embrace my unique expertise. I’ve got what I need, and haven’t ever felt the need to explore beyond it. We play so well together and work so easily to keep things fresh and new, I’ve just never needed or even considered trying someone new or different. That’s me. Even if we do repeat a lot of the same patterns, we vary them enough when it counts that sex is one of our best things together.

Saturday was no exception we teased each other for hours talking about sex over our years together, especially sex when we were brand new at it together. Gawd damned but that was hot! What on earth is better than making your very own reality and memories into the stuff of the hottest fantasies? The build up made us hot enough to fuck each other silly from desperate need as soon as we got into our room, and then coaxed us ever so gently to make love to each other, holding out so we both could savor every second as the windy cold evening, our safe memories and the perfect warm cuddling ambiance wrapped us. It made for one more wonderful memory that will be there to make next time we wander looking through our pages just as special as this time

Sunday was something for the history books though. MMmmmmmm. Man o man!

Mark packed three suitcases for us Friday night; mine, his and ours.

I didn’t pay particularly close attention to ‘ours’ because we often have an ‘ours’ bag when we get away. Of course usually the ‘ours’ bag holds toiletries, snooze pillows and other vanilla sundries. This trip, the ‘ours’ bag has no room in it for anything vanilla. We had no airport security to contend with, so, the bag is jam packed full of kinky playthings. It’s a literal ‘toy’ bag.

On Saturday, we ordered Sunday breakfast for 9AM. I voted for 7, but Mark being the HoH wrote 9 on the request, and that was that. LOL! OK, so it was not exactly ‘that,’ he did have to cope with having his chest hairs twisted after he got his ribs elbowed for being a meanie on Saturday. Then Sunday when I was starving by 8:30 he got his balls nibbled and gnawed somewhat earnestly.

Saturday night we dozed off together sometime after midnight. Mark wound down reading a fishing magazine, and I posted a teaser for our day here. Short though our sleep was, both of us kept to our darned ingrained habits. Why we both almost always wake up before the birds I’ll never figure out, but true to form that’s what we did Sunday morning.

Boy was it cold in our suite! The fact that we left the sliding doors to the deck off our bedroom open on a night when temperatures in the Hill Country were forecast to drop into the teens … well, well, well below freezing made no impression on us. We welcomed that cold. We actually said a special prayer for all the forecasts to be accurate! You see, in our first years together as a couple, desperately freezing temperatures in the night were not just common, they were nightly realities that we lived through month after month while winter prevailed. Yes, idiots that we are, we do miss those teeth chattering winter months when we lived on the north and windward banks of lake Ontario and begged for the fickle warmth of these same months in south Texas. Our first bedroom was in the tower turret of an ancient home right on the lake. All of our bedroom walls were windows, and 6 out of the eight were cracked. Cuddling together against the cold probably explains why we need to entwine to sleep soundly together, and definitely explains why our south TX air conditioning bill is as high as it is all summer.


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