Loveletter to my husband, who spanks me hard

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You plunge into me; cleaving me, filling me, taking me. Your hands cruelly squeeze and crush the raw flesh of my buttocks. Your hips pummel and thrust up into me. Urgency and panic take me. Agony takes me. Ecstasy melds … Continue reading

I was in tears before I even lay down across his lap

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Now and then my husband blows me away by how well he knows me… and how he can just reach down and pull out the answer to the impossible. This could easily have shaped up to be one of the … Continue reading

Why submission is good for women!

Submission, self actualization and related radical ideas… This started as a comment in answer to a great post on Amber made on her blog. My answer got truncated… something I never knew happened… in the haloscan comments… but I guess … Continue reading

How I prepare to get spanked

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Read the first part here, please …. But lately, infrequent though my real crimes are, they’ve been repeats of some really futile, pointless, upsets…. I don’t know why the same meaningless stuff keeps invading my mind and taking it over … Continue reading

A day of total submission

In the last while, Mark and I have been dabbling beyond straight DD into a little D/s… meaning, while we don’t live a lifestyle where domination and submission is a goal or a focus for us … we are beginning to … Continue reading

What is spanking?

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For many spankos ‘spanking’ has been a focus of our fantasies. I have noticed that male and female spankos seem to relate histories that sound almost like a blueprint. No matter what the ‘culture’ of discipline in a spankos’ home … Continue reading

Normal and healthy spanking? Is spanking normal?

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Well ya know….. I started this ramble a while back… when I was lamenting the yucky words that describe my contented reality… sexual fetish, submissive, masochist, pain slut…. And of course the ones that describe the man I love deeply… … Continue reading

Spanking with the cane

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I alluded to some issues with thin whippy implements from our younger years, and the role of some online exploration and a freind or two in helping me to get past it. And as a result, we have embraced the … Continue reading

How to deal with it when he’s not there

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I know there are lots of wives who deal with long and frequent separations from their husband’s… and that to them I’ll probably sound like a whiner… but I’m not used to it, and I don’t like it. This trip … Continue reading