How To Do A Maintenance Spanking

Last week, I wrote about what domestic discipline really is. Now let’s talk maintenance spankings! Just what are these things any way? When I first started reading about DD , I was flabbergasted by this concept. Why would anyone engage … Continue reading

I was in tears before I even lay down across his lap

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Now and then my husband blows me away by how well he knows me… and how he can just reach down and pull out the answer to the impossible. This could easily have shaped up to be one of the … Continue reading

How I prepare to get spanked

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Read the first part here, please …. But lately, infrequent though my real crimes are, they’ve been repeats of some really futile, pointless, upsets…. I don’t know why the same meaningless stuff keeps invading my mind and taking it over … Continue reading

A day of total submission

In the last while, Mark and I have been dabbling beyond straight DD into a little D/s… meaning, while we don’t live a lifestyle where domination and submission is a goal or a focus for us … we are beginning to … Continue reading

I make my husband crazy

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I make my husband crazy with this stuff I can see it in his eyes. When the insecurities dig in I have never been able to make them shut up. I don’t know why they’re so strong, and rationally I … Continue reading

Spanking with the cane

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I alluded to some issues with thin whippy implements from our younger years, and the role of some online exploration and a freind or two in helping me to get past it. And as a result, we have embraced the … Continue reading