Refusing To Get Spanked…

A good, loving wife should never fear, resist, or fight a punishment spanking from her husband. It is the natural order of things and the husband’s duty to correct his wife’s behavior to maintain order and a peaceful home. This is never something she should be frightened of. Of course it is never pleasant to be punished. It can be quite painful and very humiliating to hold your place as your bottom is being smacked because of a willful attitude. Especially when you believe you had done nothing wrong, and was justified in challenging your husband. I am criticized by feminists and asked often if I really believe husbands have the right to spank their wives. My answer is always that not only does he have the right to spank his wife. It is his duty to do so, and it is the wife’s duty to accept that fact even if she feels it’s not deserved, in every case with no exceptions.


Punishment has to be.

I am also asked, “as a woman how do I feel about submitting for a spanking.” Willingly following his orders, preparing myself and holding a position as I am smacked harshly on my bottom? And my answer is always that I am very angry. I am angry with myself for disappointing my master and provider. I am sad that I have disappointed the person who is always there for me. I am also nervous about being punished knowing it is going to be very unpleasant. But I always accept that this is the order things are meant to be, and has always been. I also take solace in the fact that once the punishment is over, I am forgiven and there is to be no more argument or discussion over any misconduct. I know that a month, two months, or even a year from now my past is not going to be brought back up and thrown in my face. If I were silly enough to repeat something I had been previously punished for, then of course I would be punished again.

It is important for a woman to understand that she is not being treated like a child, or disrespected. She is being corrected through a physical punishment, which is an acceptable consequence from the time that Eve committed the original sin, and placed women in this role. A spanking is temporary and forgotten quickly.


If you have any thoughts, please share them with me – I realize that this is not exactly mainstream… 🙂


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