Orgasm denial

So Mark and I recently decided that orgasm denial would be an effective tool to help provide discipline and would also affirm his dominance over my sexuality and other aspects of my life.  For certain transgressions, I earn another day of orgasm denial.

A takes great delight in taking me to the edge of orgasm, keeping me there, and listening to me beg for release…. or beg to stop the stimulation because I’m not sure if I can hold out.  So, last weekend, during my orgasm denial session, I slipped and had one when I wasn’t supposed to and also without asking for permission.  The fact that he would have denied me if I had asked is irrelevant.

The punishment for something this important is 12 strokes with the cane.  He gave me six almost immediately then decided that based upon my reaction (I think I was sobbing really hard – don’t really remember), he stopped and told me that I still owed him six more, which I got the following night in two sets of three….

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The canes were reserved for days like this…

These were really tough to take, as I’d had no warm up at all.  Funny how asking for the cane with erotic spanking feels so good and punishment spanking is downright excruciating!

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Where is the cane?

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Love,

Constance

6 thoughts on “Orgasm denial

  1. I have always considered the cane is the perfect spanking implement to be used on a naughty woman’s knickers down bare bottom, and I am pleased that your ever loving husband uses this implement on your voluptuous naked rear end. I hope he gives you ‘six or more strokes with the cane, when he corporal punishes you.

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  2. Vngh

    Orgasm is God’s greatest pleasure! It’s a Man’s God given RIGHT and a woman’s PRIVILEGE. If God wanted woman to orgasm every time, you’d think He’d have made orgasm necessary for reproduction. A Man MUST orgasm to reproduce. It is not necessary for a woman. As it is almost 60% of woman can’t orgasm from penetration alone. Leading me to believe that like all privileges, it must be intentionally granted! Besides when you marry a Man, you are essentially giving yourself to him in EVERY WAY, your sex now belongs to your Husband. It is for His pleasure, yours is irrelevant. A good Husband will be attentive to your needs but knows that too much pleasure can spoil a good woman! Be grateful for the GIFT of the pleasure He does grant you. And remember your greatest pleasure will always come from satisfying Him!

    As for rules 1 and 2 when you marry a Man, you are essentially giving yourself to him in EVERY WAY, your body now belongs to your Husband. It is for His pleasure, yours is irrelevant. A good Husband will be attentive to his wife’s needs but knows that too much pleasure can spoil a good woman! Be grateful for the GIFT of the pleasure that He does grant you. Orgasm is God’s greatest pleasure! It’s a Man’s God given RIGHT and a woman’s PRIVILEGE. If God wanted woman to orgasm every time, you’d think He’d have made orgasm necessary for reproduction as he did for a Man. A Man MUST orgasm to reproduce. It is not necessary for a woman. As it is almost 60% of woman can’t orgasm from penetration alone. Leading me to believe that like all privileges, it must be intentionally granted! Likewise, if that privilege is abused (orgasming without permission or worse in disobedience, masturbating after being denied orgasm etc), a woman SHOULD be chastised! And on to #3… Chastisement is an opportunity created by God for your benefit. She needs it to learn obedience and submission. And a good wife will show her Husband how greatful she is for it by giving thanking Him properly by giving him head until He orgasms.

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    • Kat-
      Please read the Bible and don’t mislead people into thinking that God said any of ‘your opinion’. God gives the gift of sex and the gift of orgasm to both man and wife. A man must ejaculate to reproduce. Having an orgasm is a separate event than ejaculation. A man & woman must ejaculate to reproduce, so the sperm & egg can join together.
      According to your opinion, “Chastisement is an opportunity created by God for your benefit”. Again, please quit using your opinion and trying to mislead others by saying God created this or that when the Bible clearly states otherwise. Stating your opinion that if you marry you are giving your body in every way to your husband & your body belongs to your husband is your skewed perception of marriage, not how God intended for marriage. Please read the Bible. If a woman chooses to give herself away to her husband, then that is her choice. Without consent, this is rape. Whether the woman is married to the husband or not. God created sex to be enjoyed during marriage for both husband & wife. Please read the Bible & please don’t treat women the way you have implied that you do. Thanks!

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